So. You want to take steps to make yourself or your family more safe from digital dangers, but you aren't really sure how to go about it. Maybe you've seen resources on this, but they don't seem aimed at you. They might have a lot of info, but they don't teach you how to prioritize, or how to start.
This webpage is a place to start.
This page swings back and forth between things to understand and things to act on.
Explanations are as short as possible. They will rely on links for you to follow if you don't understand or aren't convinced. Actions will be in the form of commands; some will be simple, some will have links to guides. The further you get, the harder the actions get; you will have to be learning as you go. In order to follow this easier-to-harder pattern, some of the most important things are placed later.
This guide is incomplete. However, the next stages closely mirror the EFF's Security Starter Pack. That guide begins with the foundational information and planning, instead of trying to ease you in to it. Since we are mostly past the "easing into it," jump to their site and work through that guide if you are ready to continue.
Alternatively, see our collection of "other places to start."